Pisces (February 19 – March 20) is the twelfth Zodiac sign. People born under this sign are characterized as emotional, humble and reserved. They strive for harmony and perfection and tend to live in their own world of fantasies.
It is no wonder that many Pisceans are no strangers to depression and broodiness. They have their head in the clouds most of the time, and when their illusions are shattered, they take it pretty hard.
When Pisceans love and feel loved they give their all. So when this sign is heartbroken, it takes a lot of time for them to recover.
So, if you are a Piscean and want to get your lover back, these advices should get you started:
Calm yourself. You tend to get upset over every little problem, so a break up must have left you an emotional wreck. As difficult as it may sound, try to think rationally for a change. Your life did not end there, and it is up to you to start again. Now is when you take charge of your life and show your ex what you are capable of.
Take time. Taking time apart is actually beneficial for both of you. You will have the opportunity to work on your personality, and your ex will have time to miss you. If you can’t avoid meeting him/her, be polite and don’t display your emotions. One of the worst mistakes you can make is calling, texting and begging to come back. This will only end up in reverse reaction. Clinginess could never end up in a happy reunion, so maintain no contact for a while. Pisceans depend on other people more than any other sign, and it may be difficult for them at first but that is what friends and family are for. Socialize, go out and meet new people, catch up with old friends.
Make a revolution. Right now you need a completely different perspective of life if you want your ex lover to change his/her mind. The most difficult task for a Pisces is to turn dreams into reality. Some time apart from your ex lover can give you the opportunity to actually start doing instead of fantasizing.
Think about the beginning of your relationship and what was so attractive about you for him/her in the first place. Maybe you lost in along the way. Sometimes relationships become so casual that we don’t feel the need to improve anymore.
As a Water sign, Pisces tend to go with the flow. Such people are perfectly fine with being in a back seat, and let someone else take care of everything. Well, maybe it’s time to change that. Work on your personality, so that positivity would take over your gloominess.
Focus on your current hobbies, take up new ones, and turn into art whenever you feel like collapsing. Pisces feels a deep spiritual connection with nature, so spend time meditating outside and search for answers in yourself.
Make it happen. When you feel like you are emotionally ready to get your ex back, don’t be too quick to renew contact. When you actually meet her/him, remain as casual as possible. Instead of talking, let your ex see that you have changed and make him/her wonder what you’ve been up to.
There is nothing more seductive as secrecy, and Pisceans are masters of creating mystical atmosphere around them. Be natural, fun and more outgoing than ever before. Your ex needs to see that you are actually capable of taking control over your life. When you two are alone, don’t let your ex see that you missed him/her. Instead, make them feel like they have missed out on a lot of fun things you did when you were apart.
Whenever you feel that your ex is drawn to you again, take small but secure steps to renew your relationship. Remember, you Pisceans can achieve great success using your intuition, so use it to reignite the fire you two once had.